Avoidance cast, plot and locations – about the series with Romesh Ranganathan

Coach Ryan Holley on Instagram: "Dismissive avoidants don’t stay attached to an ex because the love was deep; they stay attached because distance felt safe. The “phantom ex” becomes a fantasy they can idealize without ever risking vulnerability, intimacy, or emotional exposure. Real partners feel “hard” not because love is hard, but because real intimacy requires presence. You were never competing with a person; you were competing with emotional safety they never learned to handle. #dismissiveav