What do presidents, pop stars, and you have in common? Oprah’s 2013 speech at Harvard University hits on something we all feel: the need to be seen and understood. After thousands of interviews, she realized that no matter who we are—presidents, performers, or everyday people — we all want the same thing: to know that what we said mattered. In our age of constant connectivity, it's easy to hide behind screens, sending our words into the void of social media, where speed, distance, and anonymity